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Growing Old Without Growing Up – A Peter Pan Guide to Adulthood

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Over the past couple of years or so I’ve found myself doing things that grown-ups do, buying a house, being accepted for credit, holding down a job etc etc. Not to mention the fact that my age seems to be increasing rapidly nowadays. Growing up scares me, I’m way too immature to be classed as a grown-up and I really don’t want that responsibility.

Being a grown-up means you have to abandon toys, doesn’t it? you can no longer be ridiculous, out spoken or colourful without being frowned upon.. Bah! Peter Pan had it right, sort of, but we’re unlucky enough not to have a Neverland reachable by British Airways (no MJ jokes, plz)… and no matter how long I keep my window open at night I really don’t think I’m going to be sprinkled with pixie dust anytime soon. There are a tonne of fantastical activities that we enjoyed as children that we can still enjoy today, they’ll make you feel tiny again. Woop! And now that we’re ‘grown-ups’ we can concoct believable excuses for our immature actions (but honestly, if it’s fun for you, why lie?) and even make these things more fun than they used to be!

  • Visit Theme parks
    There’s nothing better in this WORLD than riding roller coasters, wearing mouse ears & running around with a sugar high.
    Grown-up Bonus: Go on your favourite ride over & over without being dragged away, head home when you want!
  • Invest in a Hula Hoop
    It might take you a little time to figure out how to use it again, but when it finally clicks you’ll have a whirl of a time. I personally own this fluorescent beauty. Alternatives are roller skates, pogo-sticks and skipping ropes.
    Grown-up Excuse: You’re doing it for exercise!
  • Build forts
    Draping sheets over chairs and making a den used to be one of my favourite things to do. I used to pull all the cushions off the sofas and line the walls (extra defences), and I’d take in snacks, teddy bears and a book and hold out in there until the enemies retreated.
    Grown-up Excuse: Cleaning!
    Grown-up Bonus: Apply your structural knowledge to create even better constructions.
  • Camp out in the living room
    It still feels exciting to spend a night camped out on the living room floor, watching movies and improvising a mattress from sofa cushions.
    Grown-up Excuse: Broken Air-conditioning, the cat threw up on the bed.
  • Eat so much ice cream that you throw up
    This sounds so negative, but it’s not. It’s probably not the best thing for you, but omg, it’s such fun to stuff your face and have a ridiculous sugar high. Head to pizza hut for their ice cream factory :)
    Grown-up Excuse: Tummy bug, no one will believe you were dumb enough to eat too much ice cream ;)
    Grown-up Bonus: You can eat well more now!
  • Run around the woods pretending you’re on an epic adventure
    You could even go so far as to take some nerf guns and declare all out spongy warfare!
    Grown-up Excuse: You’re on a nature walk
    Grown-up Bonus: No curfew!
  • Spend time day-dreaming
    Imagination is more important than knowledge. For while knowledge defines all we currently know and understand, imagination points to all we might yet discover and create. – Albert Einstein
    Grown-up Excuse: You’re thinking over a realllly difficult task
  • Make ice-lollies
    Bonus points for making rocket-shaped ones!
    Grown-up Bonus: add vodka!
  • Make weird and wonderful concoctions in your kitchen, pretending you’re doing science
    Mentos & Soda-water & haribo sours & rum = some kinda twisted mojito.
    Grown-up Excuse: You’re following a recipe, it’s your kitchen!
  • Create the most amazing midnight feast you could ever have imagined, think the food-fight scene in ‘Hook’
    Remember when you used to set an alarm at sleep overs when you were tiny? just so you’d all get up for a midnight feast? You’d never hear it, and it would all fail. Alas! You can now feast in the wee hours, and that feast can be fucking amazing.
    Grown-up Bonus: You can splurge on really ridiculous food for the feast!
  • Dig up worms
    If you never did this as kid it probably sounds super odd, but if you spent your days scouting out the longest worm in the garden then this is for you! Don’t eat them though, we’re past that.
    Grown-up Excuse: It helps with composting!
  • Dance to the superman song

    Grown-up Excuse: You’re just doing aerobics, duh

  • Invent your own language
    I talk in random languages to all the cats I know constantly, and if I don’t know the words to a song I’ll sing in tongues. It’s stupid, fun, and ridiculous. Perfect!
    Grown-up Bonus: You’re now old enough to actually be convincing when telling someone that it’s a real language o.O
  • Dress up like a fairy princess/cowboy/bear/robot
    When I was little my dressing up box was bursting at the seams, I think it’s time to crack it open again and start sporting ridiculous outfits on a weekend. FunFun!
    Grown-up Bonus: You can invest in key pieces for your dressing up box!
  • Have a conker tournament
    Perfect time of year’s coming up for collecting conkers and having an all out conker war. Jazz them up with fabulous coloured laces! yeh!
    Grown-up Bonus: You can spend even longer making your conker the hardest, now, several coats of varnish should do it!

Have fun x

5 Thrifty Tips

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Happy Monday Chicklets, how’re you feeling? I always find it useful to look at your finances, even if you’re not feeling particularly stretched, and see where you can reign in some of the spending without altering your life drastically (I’m talking quitting that takeout coffee completely – yeesh! What’s the point of existing after that?!). Lately I’ve been taking a look at my own spending habits and figuring ways I can save a bit of money on a daily/weekly/monthly basis, I figured some of the ‘tips’ I’ve uncovered may be helpful to some of you. Instead of bombarding your with a gigantic list of thrifty tips I’ll be doing a few posts instead, here’s your first one :)

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  1. Magazine Purchases
    Do you have a severe addiction to fashion magazines? Chances are you have a particular favourite that you’ll buy each month off the rack without fail. I was guilty of this until last week. Did you know that by subscribing to your favourite magazines that not only will it be delivered to your doorstep a day or so earlier than it hits the shops, but you also stand to save over the course of a year approximately 50% off the regular price? Last week I subscribed to Elle magazine, getting the first size issues for just £6 and the subsequent 6 for £16.80. That’s just £22.80 for the entire year, bringing each issue down to the cost of £1.90. Alongside this I also got a free gift of makeup that was offered with the subscription – ace! If you shop around you can find yearly subscriptions for as little as £19, too.
  2. Bulk Buy
    I don’t mean buy things in ridiculous amounts, but there are certain times where you can take advantage of buying a few of the same item. Recently I’ve been buying 6-packs of bottled drinks instead of just one each day. I either keep them on my desk at work, or stick one in my bag in the morning. Instead of costing me £1+/bottle it costs me around 50p. A great saving over the course of a year! Infact, with the money you save from doing this, you could afford some new high-end makeup. Epic.
  3. Medicine
    The price of certain branded medicines really annoys me, did you know that things like sudafed, zirtek and nurofen all have shops-own-brand equivalents which contain the same drug? have exactly the same effects? AND cost around 40% less. Next time your in the medicine aisle compare the ingredients of the branded items with the own brand equivalent, apart from silly things like caffeine (just have an instant coffee instead!) they’re the exact same thing.
  4. Packed Lunches
    A few months ago I made a promise that I’d bring a packed lunch from home at least twice a week. It’d gotten to the stage where I’d spend around £5 each lunch time, because I wanted something tastey, and cheap food is gross. I’ve kept up with this and become a little more adventurous with my lunches. I still let myself have a cafe meal treat once a week, though. Doing this has saved me a tonne of money, and made my lunches healthier and tastier!
  5. Walk More
    I invested in a jansport rucksack for the ultimate reason of walking to work, I carry a lot of shit (& a laptop) with me so my regular work bag wasn’t suitable for such an activity. I’ve since walked to work usually 4 times a week, sometimes the full 5 days. And at a saving of £6 a week in doing so I’ve already paid for the bag purchase tenfold! Even just walking to work a couple of days a week adds up to a great saving over the year. I know for some people this is something that isn’t really possible, but there are other ways to make this work – get off at the stop before the price increase to your usual fare, if your commute is in two legs try walking the second half, why not replace the bus with a bike? another firm investment that could be paid for within a year!

Hopefully some of these money-saving activities that I’ve adopted might help some of you, too. It’d be fun to see how much money you can actually save during a year! Have you got any thrifty tips to share?

Sunny Saturday & Nature Walks

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Yesterday was such a nice day, Adam and I decided to get out of the house for a bit… somewhere that didn’t involve supermarket shopping, DIY stores or parents’ homes. We headed to a local historical beauty spot called Oakwell Hall. It’s a small manor house that was built in the late 1500s which has a tonne of surrounded land with some prescribed nature walks, a cafe, a shop, and a bazillion dog walkers. We strolled along the nature trail (which is only short at 2miles) and then walked around the house garden for a while. Have some photos…

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Sunshine!

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A rare ‘couple’ photo.

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Pretty thistles. I’m loving the bokeh on my tamron lens, it’s so much smoother than on my canon lenses!

Born in the 80s

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As a kid of the 80s I had the honour of being brought up to some of the best films ever made. Films were a pretty major part of my childhood, in all honesty, I would watch my video tapes over and over until the betamax ate them. Birthdays involved a trip to the cinema (and there were always good films out at my birthday, all the Christmas releases), summer holidays were always punctuated with parental-stress-relieving cinema visits, and the Sunday family matinee on ITV was a weekend highlight.

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There are films that really stick out in my memory, ones that I’ve gone on to buy on DVD in my 20s and that resonate my childhood like no others. The majority of these films, including Home Alone, Beethoven, Curly sue,  and Uncle Buck, were written by John Hughes. I missed the boat on Breakfast club and Sixteen candles by a few years, but saw them later on and still felt that childhood delight. John Hughes died yesterday from a heart attack, his films will always mean so much to me and they’re the films that I can watch over and over again without getting bored. I feel sorry for the kids of the 00s, they’ll never know how to fend off intruders with paint cans and old movies, be best friends with a giant, slobbery dog, or how to deal with teenage crushes and growing up.

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Did you say soft furnishings?

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cushions Did you say soft furnishings?

I picked up this fabric from ikea quite a while back, around the time we picked out the paint colour for our new living room. Whilst our main wall is quite a mid-taragon colour (seen in the post below), I wanted to have different depths of green throughout the rest of the room.. and a few splashes of other colours elsewhere too. I picked up some edging for the cushions I’m going to make from the ikea fabric today, I usually just made basic square unedged cushions but thought I’d do something a little different this time. The curtains we have in our living room also feature a green.. I’m not sure I’m 100% in love with the curtains, they’re shop bought and not very exciting. I might end up replacing them in a few months, we’ll see.

ps. I just found this blog through twitter about some horrible plagiarism that I think everyone should be aware of, please go and read! http://www.book-by-its-cover.com/fineart/a-sad-story-must-read/